So You Want to be a Professional Dominatrix?

 

Presented by Mistress Montana

Tools of the Trade

A How-To Class on Correctly using the Tools of a Dominatrix

 

This is the 3rd class in a series of classes I created for women who want to learn how to open their own domination business or just learn how to be a better Dominatrix. This is a how-to class offering hands-on experience using the tools dominatrixes use during sessions. This is specifically a class for learning technique, training, and style. In this class, you will learn the basic skills for the tools of our trade. You know you want to be a Dominatrix. You now know where to advertise, what’s legal, and how to reach your target market. So now all you need to do is get clients in your door. Is it really that simple?  What are you going to do with them once they arrive??

You may have read all kinds of books, talked to friends, looked online seeking help, or maybe you have even called a Pro Dom asking questions trying to get some help and guidance because you are wanting to learn the skills of the trade. However, you struck out each time and now you aren’t sure where to turn next. Well, this is your chance to learn. Always remember life is a buffet if you want something you must get up and get it yourself. There are no free handouts in life. Your job will be to get creative with those basic skills and build your craft from there. Here you will learn all about technique, style, and safety. How to properly and safely use the equipment & toys that are instrumental to our craft.  While it is almost impossible to cover every piece of equipment that you could possibly use in each one of the categories listed below. I will be going over many of the most important ones that are used most often.

Spanking

Warm-up
Over the knee
Caning
Hardwoods
Acrylics
A switch from the tree
Stingy vs Thuddy
Corporal spanking vs a hard spanking
Roleplays/games
Domestic discipline

Bondage

Rope
Industrial wrap
Situational bondage
Suspension
Body bags
Straight jackets

Tease-n-denial/Edging

The art of foreplay
Watching their body for clues
Venus 2000
Hot Octopus

Strap-on Play

Handheld toys
Strap on’s and sizing
Prostate play
Milking
Anal toys

CBT

Cock bondage
From pain to intense pleasure
Weights
Stretching
Ballbusting
Trampling

While there are many ways to learn and become proficient at something, I have found that nothing beats hands-on experience. You get to hear it, see it, and touch it all at the same time. Mistakes can be caught in real-time and learned from instead of repeating them over and over. For the past 30 yrs, I have honed my skills by reading my client’s body language and energy. While it is easy to teach someone how to use a piece of equipment It is not easy to teach someone to “feel” what a client needs.

Your job is to set their mind and body on fire. You dance a mystical dance crafted in wants, needs, and carnal desires born out of surrender.

As a Dominatrix your clients trust you with their body and mind, your job is to be an excellent steward over those. Do not be fooled, there is nothing easy about being a dominatrix. It is rewarding but not easy. However, anything worth having is worth putting in the effort.

Mistress Montana

Education and Experience

  • BBA in Marketing and a BS in Interior Design from the University of Oklahoma
  • I have been a professional dominatrix for over 30 years
  • I currently own and operate 3 fully equipped dungeons in Dallas TX, Dayton OH, & London UK
  • I have 1000’s of Clients, taught many women how to become dominatrix, worked with countless couples on applying BDSM into their daily lives, and trained many of the past and current professional dominatrixes in Dallas.
  • Creator of the Workshop Mastering your sexuality with a twist of kink
  • Creator of the Workshop So you think you want to be a Professional Dominatrix?
  • Creator of the Workshop Tools of the Trade. A how-to class on correctly using the tools of a Dominatrix
  • Written a national column “Ask Mistress Montana”, as well as written articles for countless magazines. 
  • Partnered with Sara’s Secret on a monthly video blog “toy” review
  • Participated in a monthly PodCast with Mistress Daria called Whip Smart DomTalk
  • Guest on NYC’s morning show The Backpack Show LIVE with Chris Brogan

Worked with several movie companies:

Important Holding Films

  • Consultant for a pilot TV show
  • Consultant on 2 movie scripts

Firecracker Films UK

  • Consultant on BDSM-themed Stacey Dooley sleeps over in the USA.

Mainstream Magazines

Insider Magazine
D Magazine
Dallas Observer

Fetish magazines

Someone’s gonna get it,
Mistress Nicole London UK,
Sundowner

I will have special guests also making presentations

 

John (JR) Houghton

JR is a Business law attorney specializing in franchising and mergers and acquisitions, He splits his time between his two homes in Calgary Canada and Dallas Texas. He will be teaching the spanking segment of this class. JR is a lifestyle player with literally 30 + yrs experience. He has several personal bottoms that he works with all over the country. He holds current memberships in several of the spanking groups all over the world and has demoed spanking techniques in 2 different films. There is no one better to learn the correct technique of caning from as his skills are unsurpassed.

Memberships

  • Shadow Lane (Member since their inception)
  • Boardwalk Badness
  • Texas All-State Spanking
  • Florida Sandcastle
  • Saints
  • Bottoms Up

Demoed caning techniques in two different films.

Details

Location:
Mistress Montana’s Dallas TX Dungeon. Address to be given out at the time of registration

Date: Saturday, July 31, 2021

Time: Sign-in starts at 10:00 am. The class will begin at 10:30 pm ending at 5:00 pm with an hour for lunch.
There will be a Q&A to follow with a wine and chocolate reception after the class. **Lunch will be provided**

Cost: $420
I accept Venmo, CashApp, or all Major ccs as forms of payment. When you are ready to sign up for the class please email me and I will send you the information that you will need to pay for the class.
mistressmontana@yahoo.com

Dress: Saturday casual – no fetish wear please.

(All participants in the class will receive 20% off everything at Sara’s Secret on the day of the class.)

Please Note!

  • Because of the hands-on participation needed in this class, this particular class will be limited to 10 people.
  • This is specifically a class for learning technique, training, and style. This class will not be addressing the bigger topics such as how to get started, marketing, budgets, dungeons, and employees.
For class sign up or more information about the class please email me at
mistressmontana@yahoo.com

I am looking forward to meeting each and everyone of you!

M. Montana